Psychological vs Physical law of attraction

Lately I've heard few people talk about the effect of certain situations that can be either psychological or physical. You either believe in something and therefore attract the natural events or you focus on what you actually think is right and more logical.

It's all about your mind believing and attracting events and situations. That for me is the main reason why horoscopes may be accurate as well as the monthly tarot card readings​. It's the fact that when you hear from someone that you're going to have a bad day and you must watch out, it's not that your day will naturally be bad. It's the fact that you mentally prepare yourself for that kind of situation and therefore attract the events that may be unnecessary for you. That ofcourse can go both ways. A little anecdote for example: last year, around summer time I was having my cards read online for my starsign. The lady told me that very soon I will find a job and I'll start working. I was very happy to hear that and so I was thinking about it, constantly looking at any online websites with jobs. Few days later I get a call with a job proposition. That pretty much was the start of getting my monthly tarot readings. Although I get them read, I still believe that it's only up to the mind and if you believe in it that you will attract that certain event. I'm sure that it was just me naturally doing things that would lead to having a job without really realising that it's what I'm actually doing and thinking about that cases like a chain reaction.

It is very similar to Law of attraction. Whatever you focus on and imagine, it's more likely you will soon start to do things that will tempt other situations, wether they're minor or something proper. It's all about being told what could be possible and you believing in something which will have an effect on how you react to it. For example, if you're given any sort of medicine, pills, creams or any sort of anesthetic, in my opinion you program yourself to think and feel like it is working , which is when you will see the difference. As much as psychically it may help you, It's more psychological​ than physical. Someone will tell you that an anesthetic will work and you won't feel pain for whatever reason, you will believe them therefore you expect what it will feel like more than actually feeling it the way it is.

This topic interests me because it's something that's not talked about because not many people realise that it has a more deep meaning such as the psychological effect. People will either dismiss something like horoscope or believe in it like it's magic. However for me, it's more realistic and scientific how our mind reacts to certain situations which is what I discussed previously. The fact that some things can trick you into thinking and ignoring aspects that it holds in order to make you feel better and believe in something. Something that may not necessarily be there.

Mental death & rebirth

The phrase 'death and rebirth' has many interpretations. Some will think of the literal physical meaning whilst I take it in the more spiritual way. A mental state that you're in which can be, let's say 'labeled'. I am curious if it is something that many people can relate to, or if it's rare.

The death being the state where a person may be going through a bad period in their life wether it's for a day, months or years. The feeling that one can no longer be productive, feeling as if they have no motivation to do anything. That is linked to how the person may perceive themselves. Low self-esteem moments occur as well as the feeling of dissatisfaction of the way you are as a person, your lifestyle or even something as simple as their appearance. In some cases it might be a very serious condition and in some it's a passing stage.The death of the person, mentally.

Now here comes the rebirth part. The rebirth can be seen as coming back to life (not physically but mentally). A person would get a rush of motivation and dedication into completing a goal that they've set after realising that a change is needed. One may be in such a negative stage in their life where nothing seems to be happening as it should and so that having a massive effect on the person, it pushes them into suddenly changing the circumstances. That could be spontaneously, it could be something a person has seen that inspired them and changed their view or something as simple as a YouTube video on the relevant topic. One can notice the change in actions such as sudden exercise, obsessive cleaning, the need to obsessively look good, changing a job etc. The rebirth can be compared to the 'death' in a way that a person is making a massive change in the lifestyle and the circumstances. There's always someone that you know that had a moment in their life where suddenly they started adjusting their lifestyle drastically due to the change that needed to occur. This to some may seem a bit fake, due to the forced actions and trying to make things all good. However I see it in a way the it's the best thing the person could've done if they weren't feeling the best. It's in their best interest to change the lifestyle and try something new which can have a massive effect on them. That is my perception of the rebirth.

This general state that a person can go through continuously (highly depending on their personality) is in my opinion both good and bad. The almost Bipolar state is irregular and the feelings might be overwhelming at times. However the rebirth part of the two stages is great for almost everyone. It gives the person an opportunity to do something differently, try new things which can be life changing. Speaking from my own experience, having to go through these continious ups and downs and regaining that motivation changed my view on the fact that these situations do occur in daily life of others and that I am not the only one.

Ofcourse this won't relate to everyone due to the differences in lifestyles. If you are a person that more or less constantly is averaging the same emotions and regular feelings, you wouldn't relate to Death&Rebirth for obvious reasons.

Me being curious, I wonder how others go through this sort of thing and if one perceives it as a normal, healthy habit. It may seem almost comical and irritable however it's all up to the individual and how they handle the situation.
Thanks for reading 🌙
-Sonia Vee

Recent travelling

One of the main things that creates this amazing feeling in me is traveling. Travelling to a new place, doesn't necessarily have to be another country but even a different city or town. Recently I've traveled to Oxford which was very nice, lovely buildings and most importantly a beautiful botanic garden which left me in awe.